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Budget Skincare Battle: Did My Watsons Gems Actually Work? (7-Month Review) Budget Skincare Battle: Did My Watsons Gems Actually Work? (7-Month Review on Wardah, Glad2Glow, and More!) Assalamualaikum and hi, beauties! Wehh, finally Part 2 dah sampai! Ini sambungan untuk skincare journey baru saya dengan budget-friendly gems – The Watsons Edition. Siapa yang miss haul awal-awal tu, klik sini cepat 👉 PART 1 Its been 7 months... dalam journey budget skincare baru versi Watsons ni. Gais, nak saya terus terang ke tak ni? Jawapannya... keep reading, hehe. 💛 Soft Skin Profile Disclaimer Untuk yang baru join, kulit wajah saya acne-prone, jenis combine (oily dan dry skin) dan ada pimple scar sikit-sikit. Yelah, disclaimer awal-awal, setiap orang ada jenis kulit yang berbeza-beza. Ini journey saya untuk find back way to love own body and skin, okay? 🔎 The 7-Month Product Review: Boleh Jalan ke Tak? Seven months pakai set ni, dah cukup lama untuk test sama ada pr...

In a world often overwhelmed by complex geopolitical issues, there are moments when simple acts of human compassion shine through as beacons of hope. One such moment is encapsulated in the mission of the Conscience Flotilla Sumud, a key part of the larger Global Sumud Flotilla. As they embark (or have embarked) on their journey, my heart, and undoubtedly the hearts of many, are with them, wishing for a safe sail and a secure arrival in Gaza. Why This Mission Matters For years, the people of Gaza have lived under a restrictive blockade, severely limiting their access to essential goods, medical supplies, and even the basic freedoms that many of us take for granted. This blockade has created a humanitarian crisis, impacting every aspect of daily life for over two million people. The Conscience Flotilla Sumud is more than just a collection of boats carrying aid; it represents a powerful statement of global solidarity. It's a testament to the belief that access to humanitarian aid shou...

Fear of Disappointment: Part 2 - The Remedy From Sabotage to Self-Trust: The Remedy 💖 Recognizing the pattern of self-sabotage is the first step toward breaking it. If you see yourself in this story, understand that your behavior isn't malicious; it's a defense mechanism born from fear. The key to healing lies in shifting your focus from controlling your partner's actions to nurturing your own emotional safety. This begins with a powerful journey toward **self-trust**. (Read about the realization in Part 1: The Realization—When Pain Becomes a Comfort ). Here are some steps to begin your healing journey: Acknowledge Your Triggers. 🤔 Start paying attention to the situations that make you want to create conflict. Is it when things are going too well? When you've made a mistake? Journaling can help ...

Fear of Disappointment: Part 1 - The Realization When Pain Becomes a Comfort: The Realization 💔 Have you ever found yourself in a relationship where, deep down, you're secretly wishing for your partner to treat you badly? It sounds strange and painful, but it's a real paradox: "Treat me badly so I don't feel bad." 😥 This isn't about craving hurt. It's about escaping the overwhelming weight of guilt and the terror of disappointment. It's an act of **self-sabotage**, where we provoke our own unhappiness to maintain a twisted sense of control. This pattern often stems from a deep-seated fear that we are fundamentally flawed and will inevitably let our partners down. The constant "what ifs" consume us: *What if I mess up? What if they see the real me and leave? What if I disappoint them?* For people caught in this cycle, the inte...

I love you, but I don’t beg for crumbs of your affection. I share my needs, but I won’t force you to change. I am whole on my own, and our marriage is a beautiful addition to my life—not the definition of it. This isn't about being emotionally distant; it's about loving from a place of strength , not desperation. In a healthy marriage, both partners come from a place of emotional fullness. The Cup Metaphor: Fullness vs. Emptiness Imagine your heart is a cup. If your cup is empty , you'll constantly feel a nagging need for your husband to fill it. You’ll demand his time, attention, and affection, turning love into a source of pressure and anxiety. Now, imagine your cup is already full . It's overflowing with faith, personal growth, meaningful connections, and self-care. When your husband pours into it, that love doesn't just fill you up—it overflows with joy. It becomes a shared happiness, not a demanded one. This is what it means to take responsibility for your own...

This Is Love – それが愛だった – by  kami xxvoice Original Japanese Lyrics 愛が何か分からなかった 優しくされても 何故か怖かった でもあなたの目は 傷つくことを恐れず ただ私をそっと見つめた   「大丈夫だよ」って その言葉だけで 私の心の壁は ゆっくりと溶けていった   This is love もしもこれが愛ならば 辛くても美しいんだ 壊れそうな夜でも ひとりじゃないんだと 掴んでくれた手が 今でも温かい やっと分かった これが愛なんだ   強くなりたいって言ってた 本当は誰より甘えたかった あなたがくれた愛は 形はなかった でも一番深くて、リアルで ダイヤも言葉も なくてもいいんだと 沈黙の温もりが すべてだった   This is love 言葉なんかじゃ足りない 不器用でも本物なんだ 繋いでた手の記憶が 今でも生きてる そばにいる気がする 過去も未来も越えて やっと知った これが愛なんだ   愛は完璧じゃない それでも離れなかったね 失ってから気付くなんて酷だね でもあの時は 嘘じゃなかった あなたの心も、手も、痛みも 全部感じていた 戻れないけど願う、どこかで あなたの今日が 温かいものでありますように   This is love 気付かされたんだ 誰かの幸せを祈れること それが愛なんだと たとえ離れても あなたの名前がまだ胸にある 痛みの中で微笑む だってこれが愛だった そう、これが愛だった   English Translation   I didn't know what love was When I was treated kindly For some reason, I was scared But your eyes Weren't afraid to get hurt You just looked at...

Title: The Journey to Peace: How a Prayer and a New Love Taught Me to Trust Again I used to believe love was meant to feel like a storm. My last relationship was full of chaos and loneliness. He pushed me away, communication dwindled, and I felt more alone than ever—even when we were together. He was a master of indirect abandonment, leaving for long periods and never reaching out first. The breaking point wasn't a big fight; it was a heavy feeling in my heart. The thought of ikhtilat (unnecessary mixing with the opposite gender) made me realize I needed to step back and take care of myself—for my own sake and for Allah's. Today, I’m in a new realtionship (i'm married, Alhamdulillah), and the contrast is profound. My partner is kind and consistent, and our relationship is filled with a sense of peace . But after living in chaos for so long, this peace felt strange, even unsettling. I've heard the phrase that "peace can feel strange after a storm," and I found...

🌸 Free Crochet Pattern: Leaf Flower Panel with Diagram (Made by Me!) Assalamualaikum and hello crochet lovers!  Today I’m super excited to share something very close to my heart — a crochet panel that I not only crocheted myself but also created the diagram for from scratch! This project features a beautiful leaf flower motif in the center, framed by rows of classic stitches to give it a neat, rectangular panel look. It's perfect for table runners , prayer mats , or even as a repeating motif in larger projects like blankets or shawls. ✿  The Design Here's the diagram: ✿  (Image shown above — my own diagram made from scratch to make sure it match what i crochet (see below pic)....) ✿  The real picture:  The pattern starts with a foundation chain of 50 chains and works upward row by row. The highlight of the panel is definitely the flower with leaf-shaped petals in the center, created with a combination of chains, double crochets , and puff st...

When Connection Becomes a Burden Do you ever feel like you’re shrinking? Like a little piece of you disappears when you feel disconnected from someone you want to be close to? That feeling, that sense of becoming smaller, is a sign that the connection you crave simply isn’t available right now. And the best thing you can do for yourself is to turn off your own connection device . This doesn’t mean cutting yourself off completely. It’s a deliberate choice to pause . It's your chance to rebuild, to rest, and to do what brings you peace. When your connection is constantly "on," you become restless, chasing a feeling that isn't there. It’s not only okay to disconnect for a while—it’s necessary. It takes courage to choose to go "off." But when you do, and you're finally ready to reconnect, the bond will feel more genuine. You'll enjoy it more, free from the emotional exhaustion of forcing a connection that doesn't want to flow. You deserve connections...

Setiap manusia lahir dalam keadaan suci. Jiwa mereka kosong dari dosa, tapi penuh dengan satu naluri semula jadi: mengenal Tuhan yang satu — Allah. Naluri inilah yang dipanggil sebagai fitrah tauhid . 🌿 Apa Itu Fitrah? Fitrah ialah asal kejadian semula jadi manusia — ia bukan sesuatu yang diajar, tetapi dibekalkan oleh Allah sejak dalam kandungan ibu. “Setiap anak dilahirkan atas fitrah (Islam), maka kedua ibu bapanya yang menjadikan dia Yahudi, Nasrani atau Majusi.” — Hadis Riwayat Bukhari & Muslim Semua manusia — tidak kira bangsa atau negara — dilahirkan dengan kepercayaan semula jadi bahawa Tuhan itu wujud, dan Tuhan itu satu. 🌙 Apa Itu Fitrah Tauhid? Fitrah tauhid ialah bahagian dari fitrah manusia yang secara semula jadi: Mengakui bahawa Allah itu Esa . Tahu bahawa semua yang ada di dunia ini ada Penciptanya . Mempunyai rasa bergantung, takut, harap dan rindu kepada Allah . Fitrah ini adalah pencarian kepada keben...

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MasyaAllah, doa selawat yang sangat indah dan penuh makna. Selawat ini dikenali sebagai Selawat Miftahur Rahmah (Pembuka Rahmat). Ia membawa maksud yang mendalam tentang kecintaan kepada Rasulullah ﷺ dan pengharapan kepada rahmat Allah yang luas. Maksud secara umum: “Ya Allah, limpahkanlah selawat dan salam ke atas junjungan kami Nabi Muhammad, kunci pembuka rahmat Allah, sebanyak bilangan yang ada dalam ilmu Allah, selawat dan salam yang berterusan selama-lamanya, dengan kekalnya kerajaan Allah.” Selawat ini bukan sahaja memohon rahmat, malah ia satu bentuk zikir yang sangat kuat kesannya dalam melapangkan hati, menjemput keberkatan, dan menjadi sebab turunnya rahmat dalam hidup kita. Bila diamalkan dengan ikhlas, ia memberi kekuatan luar biasa untuk hadapi apa saja ujian. Habib Ali Zaenal Abidin menceritakan, ijazah pertama yang Beliau terima daripada gurunya Al Habib Umar bin Hafidz adalah ijazah selawat Al Habib Ali bin Muhammad bin Hussein Al-Habsyi seperti gambar diatas. Dibaca 3...

Trending Makeup Products You NEED to Try in 2025 Hey beautiful! 💄✨ If you're anything like me, you're always on the lookout for the next big thing in makeup — the kind of products that go viral for all the right reasons. Whether you're a beginner or a beauty pro, these trending items are taking over TikTok, Instagram, YouTube, and your favorite influencers' vanities. 1. fwee Jelly Pot + Keyring . 4g An easily blendable and buildable fluffy pudding texture that softly blurs and smooths your lips! Give your lips and cheeks a blurred, suede look with just your fingertips. Features: #PuddingBlurring #BlurSmudging The key chain can be used as your palette, for new shades of colors that you have mix & match to get your desire color! Shop her...

🌸 I Remember, But I No Longer Bleed A journey of healing, growth, and grace There were moments I thought I wouldn’t make it through. Memories that used to feel like knives in my chest— they still visit me, but now… I don’t fear them. I let the tears come. Not because I’m broken, but because I’m brave enough to feel them without letting them own me. I forgave him. Because he apologized, he changed, and he grew. But more than that… I forgave myself . For staying, for struggling, for believing in something better. And I was right—because we’re here now, and we’re different. Better. Wiser. I could have kept him frozen in his worst moments. But I chose not to. Because love, real love, is not about punishment. It’s about release. And I refused to be cruel to someone who is no longer who he once was. I thank Allah—for guiding my heart toward peace. And I thank myself—for...

My Budget-Friendly Skincare Routine Assalamualaikum and hi beauties! Lately, I’ve been on a mission to revamp my acne type skincare routine—but without breaking the bank. After doing some research (hours of research 😅), I finally picked up a new set of products that are not only affordable but also have great reviews. Here’s a little peek into my current skincare lineup: ✨ Wardah Perfect Bright Face Wash 🛒 Shop This face wash gives a gentle cleanse without making my skin feel tight. It helps remove excess oil and dullness—perfect for daily use. There's a blueberry smell after face wash, i like it. 🌊 Wardah Lightening Face Toner 🛒 Shop I love how refreshing this toner feels! A few drops on th...

Pilihan Healthy Peanut Butter Terbaik di Shopee Malaysia Pilihan Healthy Peanut Butter Terbaik di Shopee Malaysia! Ramai antara kita sedang mencari makanan sihat yang mudah dan sedap — terutamanya jika sedang berdiet atau mahu menjaga kesihatan jantung dan kulit. Kini, produk **Healthy Peanut Butter** menjadi salah satu kategori paling laris di Shopee Malaysia. Jom kita lihat produk-produk terbaik yang menjadi pilihan pembeli! 🥇 1. JOBBIE Peanut Butter Creamy Pure (No Added Sugar) – RM25.50 JOBBIE Peanut Butter Creamy Pure Beli Sekarang 🛍️ Produk ini menduduki tempat pertama dengan lebih 3,600 ulasan positif! Teksturnya yang creamy sangat sesuai untuk roti bakar, smoothies, atau overnight oats. ✅ Tanpa gula dan garam tambahan ✅ Halal & MeSTI Certified ...